Being Content😊 & Expecting Growth🙇🏾

So we know what the rose & hammer are… That layers with content & growth. Being content is accepting the rose with its thorns. Smelling the rose in a field of shit; Appreciating the delicate texture on a bed of nails. Life isn’t math in the sense that 1+1 doesn’t always equal 2. Math always comes to a solid unchangeable outcome. Life doesn’t so you will get the short end of the stick just gotta be content with it. Taking the little L’s because of bigger W’s. Example: If the L is dying for a wage… But the W is the living you make with the little w (wage). That’s L+W=circumstantial ending… That’s 1 +1 in life’s math.. 2 the sum being changeable. Dying for a wage & living from that wage has been a equation humans faced since the beginning of civilization. So why fight the math you create? Being content accepts the system is rigged but requires their life to accommodate them in personal gain. Life isn’t just about money…. Money is about life down to ever item. M+I= is what you can obtain… Funny.. You gotta give just to get necessities to live (Will be continued)
If we all didn’t need money you’d be a waste without being content.. Life is gonna give you a garden but your focus dictates how you perceive your yield.. If I focus on the shitty weeds.. My rose doesn’t value me. Your women has to be content or you failed as a man… You build a woman to stand firm next to you… If you don’t admire the floor you share the relationship should never be there. A man has to grow but if a women content level isn’t calculated right he may not go as far or go at all if he isn’t being steered right. Understand the flaws that can’t be changed in someone… Be content with what they can accomplish.

Expecting growth is not only fair but necessary. If we rode the bus together to dream of riding in a Ashton Martin is healthy. Growth is building a foundation nail by nail… That AM is just a nail; that should be struck with the hammer approach. If our nail is getting in shape the hammer would be eating healthy/exercise. Those who after a day of hitting the nail expect it to be solid will not grow. Expecting growth is holding the hammer firm because if you half ass the grip your scared of the nail. If you’re scared of the nail… Success scares you more than failure. If you fear the hammer you want everything given to you. If I want to make my women my queen she gotta have a throne so others can see. So she should expect me to build to be a king. While I set boundaries for only a queen for her. A joined grip with our hammer on nails you set for each other. Growth involves the soft side of things. It’s okay to be frustrated, wanna quit & go thru the motions but that’s why the hammer is needed.

You can bitch & complain on things you can change till you change them. That’s insanity… To expect the nail to be laid & firm in place without wielding the hammer is foolish. Also to bitch on what you can’t change would be insanity… I got a big forehead… Mufucka I’m Somali I gotta charge it to the game. Crying wont give me a new forehead. So I’m realistic to be content & appreciate the other shit that isn’t flawed about me. Big forehead but luckily I ain’t short so I’ll take that L for a bigger W. Jokes aside to meet a women in the middle all these variables apply to yourself. Gotta be a man to compliment a women… Be content with the motions but hungry for better meals.
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